What should I say to my older child(ren) about the bris?
I recommend that children should be told that it’s a party for the new baby and that he will be given his Jewish name. If you must, you can say that the mohel comes to remove a piece of extra skin, without explaining further. Children should not be allowed to watch unless they are old enough and can understand the importance of the bris. Please feel free to discuss this issue with me further.