What Should A Women Whos Husband Had An Extramarital Affair And Begged Pardon For That Do?
Although it would be very difficult, I think the woman should look for the reason the husband had the affair in the first place. Sometimes even the best relationships fall apart because people get so busy doing other things that they forget the most important ones. Although I do not feel she should take the blame it could be due to both of them letting feelings and time together and excitement in their marriage slip. I would not be able to forgive and forget overnight. But if I loved my husband I would at least forgive, and then talk a lot, see a therapist together, and work on re-building the relationship. If the husband is begging forgiveness, then he must still love his wife a lot. And if the affair hurt her a lot, then she still loves him, so I would at least give it a try before separating. They are church groups, social workers, and friends who can help these people find themselves, and maybe each other again.
