What should a wife do if her husband gets so angry that he throws his shoe at her?
My husband and got into an argument once- only once- and he threw a shoe at the wall and put a hole in it. He knew better to aim at the wall than at me because if he had, even if it didn’t hit me, I would’ve came at him swinging, and our relationship would’ve dissovled right then and there. Needless to say, we’ve grown up a lot since then and haven’t had that type of dischord between us since. Your husband threw something AT you because he doesn’t view you as a threat, not that you should be threatening, but if he did he would think twice about trying physically harm you. He doesn’t respect you. So, if I were you, I would find a way to make him respect me, if I wanted to stay in the relationship. You don’t have to resort to anger. No one knows your husband better than you do, except maybe his mother. It might be most affective for you walk away and say nothing. He may respect that “adult-ness” about you. It might be most affective to hit him in his sleep. For some men, not knowing when
