What qualities and traits are men and women really looking for?
It starts with the physical because obviously we are wired that way. Men are very visually driven and then they go under the hood of the car. Women are more auditory and like to hear what people have to say to see if there is a tone of sincerity in their voice, and judge whether the person would be a good provider, a good candidate for marriage. What attributes or similarities make for a winning match? [I start] with the physical, because the man has to be sexually attracted. Then I look at morals, values, spirituality, religious beliefs, five year plans … common interests, temperament and energy. A lot of times it’s psychic what I do, I don’t always know what I’m going to do until I meet the person. [It’s a] God-given sixth sense for matchmaking that I couldn’t even teach somebody. I have a feeling and I’m never really wrong — I want to be wrong sometimes, but I’m not. There are plenty of times I’m like, “That bastard doesn’t deserve that girl!” What would you tell New York women who
