What makes men be verbally abusive and controlling to women and children but not to other men?
I think that men who are abusive and controlling to women or children are insecure. They are probably scared to do it to men for fear of getting their a s s kicked! Women are more vulnerable and timid making them feel a false sense of security and control. Men like that never change. Their egos depend on inflicting abuse to weaker people than them. Makes them feel big.
When a man is like that only to women and children it’s because they are insecure and have a need to control someone. THey won’t try to control another man becaue of their insecurity that they can’t. The only way for these types of people to open their eyes is to have the ones they try to control no longer there to be controlled. I hate to say that, but from my experience that seems to be the only way. But there is always the chance that he doesn’t realize that he’s doing it and just needs it pointed out to him. Please don’t think I’m saying leave him, but if you’re uncomfortable with the situation it may help if you let him know that this type of behavior wil not be tolerated and that it is an option, but be careful as men who are abusive in that way may also become physically abusive when threatened.
Man are abusive to kids and women but not other men, because other men are more likely to punch them in the face. Any guy that abuses women or kids can’t be changed. Most people do not tolerate abusive people. They simply cut off relations with the abusive person. However, based on your question, it seems like you are the rare type of person that needs to “fix” people. Although your goal is a good one, it is a impossible path full of heartache and pain for you, and the people that love you. You would be better off ignoring your instincts and do what other people do. avoid the person in question for the rest of your life.
What makes women be verbally abusive and controlling to men and children but not to other women? If you know the answer to this then the answer to your question is the same. Far more women are verbally abusive to their families, but men don’t go cry to their buddies about it, but women do. Women get sympathy for this. Men get laughed at. Don’t give me any numbers or statistics, as men rarely report this sort of thing. Been there, done that. Learned a lot since. It’s funny how women fought for ‘equality’, but choose to perpetuate the ‘in-equities’ that favor their sex. Yours is a human social question well worth pondering when it’s not unjustly directed at men. Wake up !!
