What Kind of Gifts Are Given?
As the hostess, you are responsible for guiding the guests to presents that will be both needed and appreciated. If possible, you should sit with the mom-to-be and make a list together so that you are prepared for this responsibility. Things to discuss include: • whether or not she knows the gender of the baby; • the style of the nursery; • if she plans to breast feed and/or if she wants a breast pump; • if she’ll be using cloth or disposable diapers; and, • if she has purchased any clothing, equipment (e.g. a stroller, car seat, etc.) or other necessities yet. If she hasn’t already done so, suggest that she register at one or two baby stores, like Babies ‘R’ Us. Then, consider sending guests the mother-to-be’s wish list along with the names of any stores at which she is registered. Occasionally, people host theme showers, such as “nursery items,” “co-ed shower,” “for the outdoor baby,” or “what little boys are made of.” Themes like these lend themselves to specific gifts, such as equi
