What kind of contact can a transplant recipient expect to have with the deceased donor’s family, or a living kidney donor?
The donation process is anonymous. The recipient does not know the identity of the donor or the donor’s family – unless of course the living kidney donor is a family member or friend. It’s often appropriate for a recipient to express their gratitude in a letter to the donor family. Some recipients struggle with what to say, or how to say it. A simple, short letter can be effective. The underlying sentiment is usually just “thank you”. The transplant coordinator can help you write and deliver the letter. It’s an emotional time. The donor family may or may not respond to a recipient’s letter.
