What isn wet-and-messy?
“Wet-and-messy,” as agreed upon in alt.config, explicitly does not include watersports, scatology, or other bodily fluids (such as “Ooh, my panties are getting wet just thinking about it.”). As a group, we have had trouble in the past with confusion in this area, because the name appears to imply otherwise to some people. Although there are a few people who mix the two, most do not, and because of the frequent confusion, broaching these subjects on their own is off topic, and rude, and may get you the cold shoulder.