What is the usual and acceptable amount to gift to the priest who officiates at our wedding?
Priests, deacons and bishops do not “charge” for administering sacraments. However, it is fitting to offer them a donation. The appropriate amount would vary depending on the circumstances. A couple with very modest means and a simple wedding might offer $25 and be considered generous. But a couple that spends thousands of dollars on clothing, flowers, photography, food, music, etc. should consider a more generous gift to the priest, deacon or the church to show their appreciation. Some churches charge a fee for the use of the facilities and the necessary clean up.