What is the difference between a negative, positive, and healthy self-image?
A person with a negative self-image does not like themselves. They are pessimistic, lack confidence, are self-conscious about their appearance, and constantly worry about the opinion of others. They find it hard to receive love from another, for they don’t see how anyone could possible like, or (gulp!) love them, even God. They are not happy with themselves, so they search for happiness in relationships or in possessions or a hobby. They are possessive in their relationships and obsessive in their interests. A person with a positive self-image is the opposite. They are conceited, constantly focus on themselves and their desires, and are “know-it-alls”. After talking about themselves for a lengthy time on a date, they are heard saying, “Well, enough about me, what do you think of me?” They love mirrors, like their name “in lights” and want credit for everything they do. They don’t need anyone else, and don’t feel a need for God. A person with a healthy self-image is balanced between the
