What is the deal with this domestic discipline way of life?
I’ve already posted this answer to a similar question, probably one that you posted, since the context is almost identical. I’ll answer again, though. First of all, let me correct a few misconceptions that you have about the practice of domestic discipline. First of all, while the majority of couples that practice it have the male in the position of power, so it’s the orientation that you’re most likely to see, there is no rule that only men are the ones in charge. There are domestic discipline households in which the male is the subservient party to his female head of household. Truth be told, there are probably MORE households like this, but they are less vocal, probably because of the negative stigma that society places on a man who’s not “in charge” of his life. There wouldn’t be words like “hen-pecked” in our language if men weren’t expected by society to rule the roost. Domestic discipline relationships with the man in charge can afford to be more open about their lifestyle, sinc
Because some people find it emotionally satisfying. I have this kind of relationship with my husband, and it has improved our life together greatly. We argue less, we are more open and communicate better with each other, we are more relaxed, we laugh together more, and I am much more strongly attracted to him sexually. My husband derives satisfaction from ‘taking it out on your bottom’ as he describes it, when I’ve annoyed him, and I find it emotionally satisfying too. he has never actually used any other kind of punishment(he’s threatened it occasionally though). However, other women often do get punishments other than spanking. I know women who have been grounded, not allowed to go on the computer for a certain length of time, had to write lines, etc. And yes, confiscation of credit cards is also one that is sometimes used. Other punishments, or the threat of them, can sometimes be more effective than spanking. My husband did get annoyed about me leaving my mini computer on the sofa
