What is the best way to word a Baby Shower invitation given the following ciscumstances…?
Word the invitation just like you would any other baby shower invitation. If the guest are close enough to the couple to invite, then they already know their circumstances. Personally, I wouldn’t mention a register, but for some folks doing so is the norm. Do whatever the family and friends are accustomed to as far as that is concerned. You might somehow word the RSVP part of the invite in a way that lets people know it’s VERY important that you get a head count before the day of the shower otherwise you won’t hear from anyone and won’t have any idea what to prepare for as far as refreshments are concerned. Good luck!