What is the best way to end a relationship without any one getting hurt to badly?
I agree with the other person that said to talk to him first. I almost broke up with my bf of 3 years yesterday, I started the breakup speech and before I got to it we just talked about the issue I had with the relationship and it was because of something that he just didn’t realize he was doing wrong. If you love him and the relationship was doing well except for where you’ve plateaued, there are ways to get that chemistry back. If you are sure you want to break up, just be honest with him so he knows what not to do with the next girlfriend. Be honest, but kind. I wouldn’t advise just outright telling him that he bores you to pieces, that seems a bit mean, but do mention that you think you’ve slowed down and you’re not happy with it.
Do it swiftly! never leave any question about your motives. Be straight with him. If you pretend there is a chance to “Be Friends”, you are stalling the inevitable, and may cause a difficult and emotionally charged break up, as well as causing a big distrust in women for the BF. If you are bored and didnt do anything to change the situation, then its your fault that things got that way. Its your responsibility to be honest and caring with the other person. If you just let things happen and didnt do anythig to make things better for each other then you will likely run into the same thing in your next relationship. If you are bored, that can happen, but if you did nothing to make changes, you will see this trend in your relationships again and again. People change, but your responsibility is that if the other person did nothing to you but make you bored, you needed to say somthing, or try to make changes before you concluded you were done. If you tryed and the BF was not in tune with wha
