What is the best way to discuss whole body donation with my family?
We all know that the occasion of death is a very difficult and stressful time for a family without the added burden of having to make immediate, critical decisions. In addition to inquiries about the final disposition of the body, the family of the deceased will be asked if they wish to donate their loved one’s organs and/or tissues. That is why it is so important for everyone to discuss their wishes ahead of time with their family or legal next-of-kin. MANY OF US may have organ or tissue donor cards in our wallet or purse. In many states we can affix a donor pledge to our driver’s license. The Uniform Anatomical Gift Act, now enacted in all 50 states, makes provision for these donor cards. But donor cards are not enough! Organ & tissue procurement agencies will not act without permission of the next-of-kin of the donor. In order of priority legal next-of-kin are (1) spouse, (2) adult son or daughter, (3) parent, (4) adult brother or sister, and (5) legal guardian. The most important s