What is the best way to deal with PAS?
The parents I know who were successful in getting primary custody of their children in a PAS situation shared the following characteristics: * They completed a comprehensive parenting course such as Breakthrough Parenting, and stuck with it until they rated excellent in the knowledge, skills and methods taught. Their parenting skills became superior. * They were even-tempered, logical and kept their emotions under control. They never retaliated. A person who reacts in anger is proving the alienator’s point that he or she is unstable. * They certainly thought of giving up but never did. No matter how awful the harassment got, they worried about leaving their daughter or son in that environment. They were driven to continue trying to get the court to understand the seriousness of the issues and to change primary custody to them. * They were willing and able to go to the financial expense of seeing it through. * They got help from a skilled family lawyer who had experience with parent ali
