What is the adoptive family allowed to know about me?
It is important that the adoptive family know as much about your genetic background, drug and alcohol history, and health as possible. Every agency is required to obtain a Health and Genetic History which will be given to the adoptive family. Although some of the information may be personal and difficult to discuss, it is important not only to the adoptive family but to your child. Genetic issues such as cancer may have a very strong genetic link that should be addressed by your child’s pediatrician as he or she grows older. Other issues, i.e., alcohol, drug and tobacco consumption may be essential to the health of your child. This information is kept confidential between the agency, you and your adoptive parents. It is never given to your parents or any law enforcement agency. It is used solely for the purpose of helping your child both now and in the future. Information such as your name and where you live is kept only in agency records unless YOU request that it be given to the adop
You decide how much you want the adoptive family to know about you. They may know your full identity or not, depending on what you decide is best for you and your child. They will know your medical history as it pertains to the child. You can also write the family a letter about yourself or ask your counselor to tell them about you.
