What is more important when playing recreationally with other people; technique or feel?
Neither is more important than the other! Technique and feel are intertwined and interdependent. Technique should include what to play and when to play it, as well as how it feels. Feel should include the ability to play clear and consistent sounds (technique) in patterns that groove and serve the music. Always remember that we get good at what we do! In other words, to get good at technique and feel, as well as to develop the ability to listen, communicate musically and work with other musicians, we should always play with the intention of including all of them. Remember also though that it does take time and patience to get anywhere worth going, so don’t be overcritical of your playing. Just be aware of all these elements within the context of having fun while drumming!