What is mentally wrong with me?
There is nothing wrong with you mentally sweetheart, nothing at all. But he has some serious issues with his own sanity. I’m not a doctor or a shrink, so my advice probably wont be very good, but I think you should tell someone else in your family, like your parents or your siblings or just anyone who can help you. Mental abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, sometimes worse, depending on the form of physical abuse. You say he hasnt physically hurt them, but with his appauling, evil behaviour, he is mentally hurting them all the time. You and your childre deserve better. I’m not sure about the legal system, but I do know that my cousin married a woman much like your husband (she was always having affairs, and she had openly stated she didnt care about her two young sons) and my cousin eventually had enough of it, took her to court over custody rights and she is now not allowed to see them, because the court recognised that she has mentally abused her children for about 6 years I thin