What Is Included in a Unity Candle Ceremony?
The lighting of the unity candle symbolizes the bride and groom joining as one. This rite commonly has the following structure: • Prior to the wedding ceremony, a large unity candle and two slimmer tapers are placed on the altar or another table in the front of the ceremony space. • After the exchange of vows and rings, the couple moves to the area where the candles have been readied. Two honored participants, one representing each side of the family (usually the bride’s mother and the groom’s mother), come forward and light the individual tapers for their children. Alternatively, the single tapers may be lit prior to the ceremony. • The bride takes her lighted taper; the groom takes his lighted taper. • Simultaneously, the bride and groom use their individual tapers to light the unity candle between them. • The bride and groom extinguish their tapers and return them to their holders. Two popular variations on this tradition have also developed: Those who wish to place a greater emphas
