What is Hidden in Online Dating Profile Turn-Offs and Turn-Ons?
Online dating site member profiles often have boxes for users to list their Turn-ons and Turn-offs. What you list in these boxes needs to be thought about carefully. For me, these are fascinating topics. It’s probably ok if something which you like – e.g. skinny dipping – does not appear under the ‘Turn Ons’ heading of a profile you find attractive, as long as it does not appear under the ‘Turn Offs’ heading – that may well make you move on to look at another profile. However, some ladies have low self esteem in regard of body shape (in many cases without justification). I have been told that the same also applies to some men. So, a dislike of skinny dipping could really mean something else. Tattoos frequently appear under the ladies’ ‘Turn Offs’ heading, so if you are a man and have tattoos then you will need to work out a way of handling that in your profile or narrative. There are the usual obvious issues about location of tattoos and ex-girlfriends names, but generally honesty is t
