What is good first-date conversation?
The following is an email exchange between John Holt and myself after only a phone conversation. During this conversation, I told John I was looking for a man between the ages of about 28-35 (I am 29), a single professional, preferably with a college degree. I said I would prefer someone who did not have children, but would not rule that out. John informed me that the guy I just described was looking for a “charm on the arm”. I described my physical appearance. While I will never be a model, I am attractive and have a lot to offer. We discussed the dating pool out there, dating strategies, and he gave me pricing information. We ended the conversation with me saying I would think about it. Several days later, the following email exchange occurred: John’s email (my name is removed): Hi, The conversation must have been somewhat interesting the other night. There are no quick fixes in dating men these days. I have seen trends in my business in the 18 plus years I have been doing this. The
