What is ETMs position on shadchanus as a way for singles to meet?
Contrary to common misconception, ETM is not ideologically opposed to any Halachically acceptable method of meeting. Different methods of meeting work for different people, and no individual or group of people should feel compelled or otherwise pressured to limit themselves to a particular form of meeting that does not appeal to them. There is no one-size-fits-all approach, and within the rigid confines of Halacha there are numerous valid methods, all of which should be more readily available. While ETM seeks in particular to promote more informal methods of meeting, we do not limit our constructive efforts to our most preferred methods. All of the various methods have pros and cons – both Halachic and practical. We seek to identify the cons of the various methods and improve them, so that dating for everyone will be more pleasant and will ultimately lead to more stable, happy, and successful marriages.
