What is Congruence?
Alignment, as occurs when your parts are aligned, brings much value to NLP, because it empowers our resources. The most basic alignment occurs when our sense modalities are in harmony. If there is a mismatch, then we have internal contradiction. On a larger scale, we become congruent when our parts harmonize. As you’ll recall, parts act like little personalities within us, or clusters of motivations that work together. And ecology refers to parts or other systems supporting each other. So you could say that in congruence, your parts play well together. On an even grander level, coherence happens when our alignment points in a constructive direction that matches our self interest. The highest order of congruence takes place when we align all the way up to and including our higher values and aspirations. This extreme alignment brings perhaps the greatest satisfaction a human being can experience. When you meet someone who is not congruent, or we could say who is INcongruent, they tend to
