What is actually wrong about cutting wrists or self-harming?
Hi there, Really sorry to hear about your situation. I am going to be honest with you here. Cutting yourself is obviously not normal or healthy. There is also an element of danger involved with regards to cutting yourself the wrong way or too deep which could result in bleeding to death. However by cutting wrists and self harming you are avoiding addressing the hurt or pain that is causing you to self harm. When people self harm it is almost always due to trauma or some type of psychological pain. So although you think you are dealing with the pain by self harming you are just moving the pain from the inside to the outside. You are not attempting to fix the root cause of the pain. So this is what is wrong with self harming. You are not addressing the real problem. Please go and see a good psychologist because no matter how much pain you are suffering it can be resolved.
