What is a Surrendered Single? And just what is she surrendering—and to whom?
A Surrendered Single recognizes that if she wants to attract the man with whom she can develop intimacy, she cannot control relationships. She cannot determine who asks her out, how he’ll do it, when he’ll call or e-mail, or if he’ll commit to her. A Surrendered Single may have unwittingly been trying to control, manipulate and force relationships previously, but no more. She doesn’t hunt for Mr. Right–she attracts him. She’s purposely quiet on first dates so she can learn more about him and stay with her own feelings and intuition about what he reveals. She relinquishes her checklist of qualities she thinks she requires in a man. Then, she acknowledges that she can be blissfully happy with an imperfect man, and that she will definitely be lonely without one. Surrendering is about following some basic principles that will help you change your habits and attitudes about dating. It is terrifying because, at times you will feel vulnerable. But the results are grand: your fears will melt.
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