What is a Divorce Coach?
A divorce coach is a trained professional with experience in the emotional and legal considerations of the divorce process. What does a divorce coach do? • Assists in managing emotions • Helps in developing Personal Goals • Works to create an action plan to achieving your goals and supports you through this major life event What are the benefits for using a Divorce Coach? • Save money – Often those in process of divorce will use their lawyer as a sounding board and councilor at $200-$300/hour. A Divorce Coach is a fraction of the cost. The Coach does not practice law, give legal advice or make any legal recommendation. • Save time – When emotions are managed and goals and directions are set, the divorce process can be streamlined. Time spent in meetings such as legal conference, court appearances and mediation can take less time thus save money • Focus – So often anger and disbelief control how we act and think during a divorce. The divorce coaching process allows the client to manage
Coaches are specially trained mental health professionals who help manage the collaborative process. They understand the emotional issues of dissolution so they can aid both parties in reducing the stress and upset of divorce. Your Collaborative Attorney will help you understand legal and financial issues. But what about diffusing anger, setting goals for your life after divorce, and learning how to clearly state your needs during emotion-filled negotiations? Coaching is not therapy, but it can be therapeutic. The primary goal of your coach is helping you be your best while you plan your new life apart from your partner. It took a long time to become a couple — the process of “de-coupling” can be difficult to manage alone. Your coach will help you cope with strong emotions during your separation, lower your stress level, and learn effective communication skills that will set the groundwork for a healthy post-divorce relationship with your ex-spouse.
