What if the woman is abusive too?
Research shows that women are most likely to be the abused person; however, we know that women can be abusive to their partners as well. Just like men, women sometimes seek power and control by using abuse. It is important for her to get help to change how she deals with her relationship. Her partner may also want support. The Provincial Family Violence Information Line, 310-1818, is available from anywhere in Alberta. In Edmonton, call 211 for information about services. Some women have learned to be abusive in reaction to having been abused. If her partner is attending Changing Ways, it may be helpful for her to get counselling at the same time so they can work on their communication together. She can get referrals to supports in the community by calling Susan with Partner Services at 780-439-4635 ext 224.
