What if my spouse wont come to therapy?
Have you ever seen the ripple across a pond or lake when a stone is dropped in the water? Something similar happens when even one person attends therapy and begins making positive changes in how they relate to their spouse. Although it is preferable for both spouses to be involved in therapy, one person can create positive ripples of change by taking responsibility for their role in the marital difficulties and changing their relational patterns. Sometimes when the non-attending spouse starts to see these changes in the spouse attending therapy, it prompts him/her to start coming to sessions.
