What if my recipient doesnt want to receive my mail?
For a variety of reasons, it may well be that your recipient will not be ready to receive your mail. One reason is that people may not want to be reminded of the deceased person because there had been a falling out between them that was not resolved before the person died. More often, however, its because younger persons do not like to be reminded of their own mortality. Its also generally true that as people get older, they tend to resist suggestions and comments made by parents, even if made for their own good. Also, if your messages are repetitive, they may indeed grow tired of your reminders. We suggest you be creative, avoid repetition, and focus primarily on expressing your love and hope, positive things that will more likely be warmly received. In any case, we allow the recipient to postpone receipt of your messages until theyre ready to receive them, or if not, to cancel delivery of your messages to them altogether (your messages will continue to be sent out to your other recip
