What if more than one person (perhaps the pastor and a friend) sends the books to the same grieving person?
This isn’t likely but if by chance it did happen, the grieving person would probably feel even more cared for–two friends cared enough to send these books. The grieving person could also put the extra copy to good use, passing it along to another grieving family member. So receiving an extra set would be a positive rather than a negative. Likewise, even if the cover letters with the books were similar (they wouldn’t be identical since each giver would personalize the letters in his or her own way), the recipient will so appreciate receiving the books that he or she probably wouldn’t even notice any similarities in the letters.