What if he’s shy?
If he’s clingy, don’t force him to do anything he doesn’t want to. If he’s glued to your side at the start of a social event, chances are he won’t be there at the end. He’ll get the confidence to leave you and play with others but in his own time. If he thinks nothing’s expected of him, he’ll be more relaxed. Help him socialise by introducing him to others – start with small groups (two or three children), because a room full of toddlers can be overwhelming. You may have to accept that your child’s more wallflower than party animal, and that can be difficult for mums who are outgoing. ‘Your child doesn’t have to be the life and soul,’ says Dorothy. ‘He just has to be able to interact with others. The important thing is that he’s happy.
