What happens before a Jewish wedding?
The following are some common customs before a Jewish Wedding: Tena’im–The Engagement: Engagement in Jewish law is more than just the intention to marry; it carries considerable legal and social significance. The official Jewish engagement takes place at the groom’s table, with the signing of “Tena’im,” which creates the Jewish legal status of “engaged.” The honor of reading the contract (in Aramaic) is often given to a prominent rabbi or close friend. Then, the mothers of the bride and groom break a china plate, signifying the completion of the engagement agreement. Te’naim is a mutual agreement between the bride and groom’s parents. It concerns the date and financial arrangements of the marriage. The Te’naim dates back to the third century C.E.; it serves to discourage disorganized arrangements as well as misunderstandings that can lead to hurt feelings and strained relationships. Often, the signing is accompanied by an engagement party for the couple and their parents. Te’naim is p
