What happens at club events?
That depends on the type of event and the couples in attendance. At a dance, the atmosphere is charged and you can expect loud music, “dirty dancing,” salacious rubbing/bumping and grinding, and suggestive conversation. There likely will NOT be blatant sexual activity going on at the dance – just a lot of flirting and people getting turned on. But then again, there could be some pretty outrageous behavior at the dance itself. We’ve seen it! Hot tub parties (or other kinds of house parties) are lower-key – there are fewer people, and the atmosphere is quieter. This type of event is more conducive to talking with other couples and learning more about them personally. Our personal view is that you might feel more pressure to get together – not because people will pressure you overtly, but because it’s highly likely that there WILL be sexual activity at this party and you will begin to feel conspicuous if you don’t participate. Whether you do get together with anyone, of course, is STILL e
