What Does Flirting Mean as a Jewish Single?
Flirting by the very definition is behavior which is playful and is intended to create sexual arousal and interest in another person. Jewish singles may wrestle with the dilemma to flirt or not to flirt, with some believing that this behavior is wrong and others disagreeing. Many Rabbis have pondered this question, and the common answer is that flirting is not wrong as long as you are flirting with the right person. Most other cultures use flirting indiscriminately, with flirting being considered harmless. The Jewish religion, however, dictates that flirting occurs only after the potential mate has been identified. When a Jewish person starts to look for potential partners, this is usually done by telling friends and family, who then either know someone or spread the word through their friends. Online Jewish dating services can also be used by singles to find potential matches. These sites introduce matches based on compatibility, as well as each individual’s requirements and desires.
