What do you think of mothers who hve children by multiple fathers?
I think you cannot tar everyone with the same brush. Here are 2 people I know. ‘S’ has 4 children. The father of her two daughters physically abused her. Not a week went by without her receiving a beating. After 10 years of abuse she left him. She found love, remarried and had a son. Tragically her husband was killed in an accident when their little boy was 4 months old. Four years later she has remarried. She is 5 months pregnant. Could anyone consider this women ‘bad’ in any way? ‘L’ has had 6 pregnancies. Her first three have different fathers and were taken from her and put into care. She aborted her 4th pregnancy and has been allowed custody of her youngest son who is 4. He had a different father from his 3 older siblings. She is heavily pregnant with #6 (again, a different father) I cannot think of her in the same way as I do ‘S’ and although I do not ‘judge’ I find it hard to feel kindly towards her (she is a cousin) especially as she has never worked and lives entirely on benef
just because someone has a child with one person does not mean that father is goin to stick around its a fact of life some men cant come to terms with the change in their life and just leaves however its not just women that have kids by different people the father of my 2 children has gone on to have another child with someone else just because this person is the talk of the town does not make her a bad person and you should never judge someone for havin children with different people sometimes the children are better off without their biological dad around i no my 2 are you shoulnt be judgemental about this one day it could come back to haunt you
People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones I was in a relationship with who I thought was ‘the one’ thank heavens he wasn’t but I got myself a little boy out of the relationship who is adorable and I wouldn’t change him for the world I was a single mum for about a year when I met my now husband who I have 2 children with so I am now a mum with 3 children to 2 different fathers….does that make me a tart…….I dont think so!!
Well, my mother has 3 kids two different fathers, she was married to my father they got divorced, and when I was 8 she had a child by a different man, My little sister things didn’t work with him, but she had her tubes tied,so she can’t have anymore babies otherwise she might be in the same boat. So would my mother be the talk of the town? My mom has a college education makes plenty of money and doesn’t need a man if she doesn’t want one. Oh and she would not be the talk of the town if people would just stop talking about other people, please understand that only your opinion matters in this situation, however with my take on it, it would depend on how the kids were being taken care of hopefully she has her own stable home, other than that I think I have better things to worry about in my home so it’s not my business. All though I’m sure people can’t help to raise an eye brow or two.
and the problem is… What should matter is are the children cared for, looked after, well fed, clean, loved and nurtured not omg she is having a baby with a different man. Hopefully those children still see their dads but if not at least they do still have their mother, a lot of children would like to have that. I honestly think these people have too much time on their hands if all they can do is criticise and gossip about a woman who is having children with other men. I hope this one is better than the last lot who are no longer there and it works better for her this time round.
