What do you think are the wrong reasons for having child (ren)?
Some wrong reasons I have observed from my friends ( I am virtually the only one of us left who does not have kids. The more our friends have kids, the more opposed to the idea me and hubby become.) – It is an opportunity to forget about any outside obligations you formerly had with your friends, all in the name of “my kids are my life.” IN short, people use it as an excuse to become even more self-involved. – A lot of women use childbirth as a shortcut to a meaningful relationship in their lives. Instead of putting in the work with their SO to develop it into a highly gratifying relationship, or maintain their friendships to reap those rewards (see above), at the first sign their friends or husbands are letting them down, they say, well, I guess I need to have kids to really know what love is. -they are feeling old and decide to have kids so they can spend all day running around doing the activities of a 4 year old as a fountain of youth. These people will not be happy until the rest
