What do men and women lie about most?
Women lie about their weight and age. Men lie about their height, their age, their income. And everybody lies with their photos. When you put a picture, put up a full disclosure picture with a big smile — people do like happy. And put up a picture of your body. What I do is I assume somebody is going to be 20% worse looking than their picture -and then I’m pleasantly surprised. You say people limit themselves too much. How? You can always not go out with someone who you see online but you can’t go out with them if you don’t see them. So loosen up your search criteria. Think of what we call deal breakers — things that you absolutely cannot tolerate. If you’re Catholic and you won’t date Protestants, OK. Put that in the search criteria. But if it’s not a deal-breaker, don’t include it. That goes for age. That goes for height. Should you look for dates online if you’re not that serious? Absolutely. Don’t do it if you’re in a bad place, but this can serve whatever purpose you want it to se
