What Coping Mechanisms Are Used by Victims of Bullying?
• Depression, isolation, low self-esteem, lack of hope, fear, insecurity, and violent or self-destructive behavior are just a few of the mannerisms evident in victims of bullying (Espelage & Swearer, 2003; Nansel et al., 2001; Olweus, 1993). • Victims of bullying often avoid hallways, restrooms, and even switch schools in an effort to distance themselves from other students (NMSA, 2001). Instead of being visible to others, they will “hang out” in the office, other classrooms, or a secret corner during lunch and break time. • Some students will create a map of safe havens and plan a circuitous route through school to escape being victimized (Wessler, 2003). • Most victims will not report incidence of bullying (Shakeshaft et al., 1997). • Aggressive victims will internalize the continuous victimization until they can no longer cope. Once they have reached their limit, they resort to violence (i.e., shooting a gun, starting a fire, or becoming bullies themselves). Others may choose self-d
