What are those romantic relationship compatibility issues that one should not overlook before marriage?
romance will not sustain any marriage, communication and action there of, will here is why marriages ( and all relationships ) go through 3 phases the honeymoon phase.. where you do not find fault in each other, this is where most people think they want to be the rest of their life, but such heat and passion is unsustainable, like a drug you find you want more… the reality phase.. where you finally see what you gotten yourself into, and maybe not like what you got, this is where the nit picking starts and the hard reality of living with someone long term begins. this is where the territorial and power fights start as each side jockeys for position in hopes of getting a better side to the compromise that each has entered into the comfortable phase … few make it to here, most have divorced soon after stage 2 hits hard. at this point you have accepted the other person, are comfortable with them ( flaws an all as no one is perfect ) and are not clingy, needy and know the other person l
If people are going to get married, hopefully they are romantic enough to go through with it and not have that problem. But there are some couples who aren’t on the same wavelength with openly displaying affection. It’s all a part of how they were raised. Most people who were raised to show someone how they feel, say ‘I love you’, and make a person feel they are loved. If the other was not raised this way, then there will be an unevenness that will have to be worked out so no one feels unappreciated or unloved. Talking about expressing emotions of love, caring, and affections will be a great start on how to deal with couples who may love each other, but one or the other can’t express themselves.
