What are the three most common fears that men/women have on a first date?
Bill: Without a doubt, the number one fear is the fear of failure. Because they’re afraid they’re going to go out and get rejected, they’re afraid they will say things that are dumb, that it’s not going to work with this person. And often they will avoid the whole situation because they don’t want to feel that fear. Second, they have a fear that they’re not going to know how to carry on a conversation. It’s real common for men to look at women and see them talk all the time. They’re really good with words, and the guy feels, “I don’t know how to keep up with this.” So he just feels he is inadequate in this whole area. And third, it’s real common for men to think that women expect too much, that women have too many things going on, that they have too many needs. So men often, ahead of time, think it’s not going to work, so their confidence level is real low. They end up saying things that communicate that their confidence level is real low. And she’s not attracted to him because he is l
