What are the protocols for aborishas?
Each ile has its own rules regarding the code of conduct and attire of members. This is determined by the godparents. For aborishas at all gatherings – in the homes of santeros or at rituals – the altar, or throne, or Orishas are saluted FIRST. Then your godparent is saluted. No matter their age – even if there is a room full of elders. Your godparent will then show you who to salute next – this is done in order of age – eldest first and down the line. Being lifted is a blessing – and as my Ifa godfather explained – one is saluting the Orisha of that persons head – not them – and by lifting you the person is giving you a bit of their ashe and health. There are elders who will stop you from throwing yourself. This is usually an indication that they are ill – and cannot deplete their own energies. In that case, you simply cross you arms and hug and say “Bendicion” or Alafia. There are some elders who don’t want aborishas to throw themselves to be lifted, only want to be greeted with the
