What are the pros and cons to have a wedding ceremony outside of a church/parish?
Thanks, Maria Answer from Jeff Haden of Blackbird Images Dear Maria, Since you’re asking the question, it’s obvious you’re open to having a non-church wedding. So I’ll skip the religious or spiritual considerations – especially since those decisions are personal and you should always follow your heart. Instead I’ll focus on cost, logistics, planning, etc. Also keep in mind I’ll refer to facility concerns and not issues of faith: If you’re married by a preacher at a country club, on a beach, or in your backyard… it’s still a religious service. Church Wedding Pros: • Infrastructure is in place. Seating, altar, organ/piano, PA system (typically), rooms to get ready, even sufficient parking… basically all you have to do is add your own flowers/decorations/etc and you’re ready to go. • Cost is relatively low. Most churches charge a set fee (okay, some call it a “donation,” but it’s still a fee) for hosting the service. In my part of Virginia the cost to use the church ranges from $200 to $4
