What are the Phases of Abuse?
The phases of abuse can be visualized by imagining a diminishing circle spiraling downward. As time progresses, the phases are shorter, the violence intensifies, and the episodes of abuse may become more frequent. Not everyone experiences these phases and they vary depending on circumstances. • Tension Phase: This phase is characterized by emotional abuse and verbal attacks. The victim often uses appeasement and patience as coping strategies. As time progresses, the tension increases and the coping techniques are less successful. At the same time, the verbal assaults may become more hostile and prolonged. Incidents involving minor physical assaults, such as pushing or slapping may become more frequent. In response, the abused woman detaches herself emotionally and psychologically. The abuser, sensing her retreat, is more controlling and possessive. • Crisis Phase: In this phase, tension reaches its climax. The escalation may be in the form of a series of minor assaults over a period of
