What are the most common fears in children about surgery?
In many cases children fear what adults fear: discomfort and pain, not waking up after surgery, and/or waking up while the surgery is still happening. Children are less able to express their fears, though, and may fear simply being away from their parents. In most cases, the best preparation for your child is to be as honest and open with him or her as you can, and explain things in an age-appropriate manner. Assure your child that he or she will be asleep during the procedure and will wake up at the end and be reunited with you. Answer questions as directly as possible; your child will take his or her cues about the surgery from your own attitude and behavior. The more confident you are the more confident your child will be. Discuss your own questions and concerns with the surgeon and the anesthesiologist.
