What are the main tips for preventing tantrums and raising “the happiest toddler on my block”?
• Play and talk together a lot! Just as feeding quarters into a parking meter all day long protects you from dreaded tickets, “feeding your child’s meter” with lots of 2-10 minute helpings of playtime throughout each day ward off temper tantrums and create a growing relationship of cooperation and caring with your toddler. • Set clear and consistent limits. Toddlers are like little primitive beings who push us around if we’re too wimpy about the rules. Smart parents pick their battles and only set limits they are sure they can enforce. And, if needed they’re prepared to take a stand and do a time out. Warning: If you find you are doing too many time-outs, it’s probably a sign that you are not “feeding your child’s meter” with enough time-ins (like, attention, play, praise). • Above all, treat your child with respect. The best way to raise a child who is respectful is to show her respect with your words and actions…even when she’s doing something you want to change. The Happiest Toddler
