What are the honors that can be given out at the bris?
The highest honor given at a bris is that of the Sandek. The Sandek’s role is to help hold the baby during the circumcision. Traditionally the Sandek is a grandfather, but both grandfathers can share this honor, or it can be given to any other special person that you would like to honor in this way. The bris service affords opportunities for the grandparents and others to participate with readings and blessings. The grandmothers traditionally light candles before the service.