What are the Common Myths About Children and Grief?
Children and adolescents are not yet adults and, although this may seem like an obvious statement, we may sometimes forget. It is important to recognize that children do not grieve in the same way adults do, but it is equally important to recognize that children do indeed grieve. If you know a child or adolescent who has recently experienced a loss, you may want to take a look at the following myths and suggestions. They may help you better relate to him or her and perhaps help yourself at the same time. • Myth: Children do not grieve or grieve only when they reach a certain age. Fact: Children grieve at all ages. The way grief is manifested will vary depending on the child’s age, development, and experiences. • Myth: The death of a loved one is the only major loss that children and adolescents experience. Fact: Children and adolescents experience a range of losses. The loss of a pet, separation by divorce or relocation, loss of friends or relationships, as well as loss due to illness
