What are the common childhood fears and how can parents help their child in dealing with these fears?
A. There are several fears that can be seen among children. These fears change with age, for instance, very young children fear being separated from their parents, or seeing strangers. Older children are afraid of imaginary creatures, darkness, insects, fluffy objects, unknown things, shadows, etc. It’s very important that such fears are handled correctly, as future reactions to fear will depend on this. Being supportive rather than dismissive is an important technique. Reassure the child that you are there with him or her; explore the source of fear at a later date, or at the same moment, depending on the child’s willingness. Hug the child and hold tightly until the fear subsides. DO NOT YELL at the child for being afraid. Q. When and how you should tell your child that he is adopted? A. It is very difficult to recommend a specific age and technique to introduce the idea of being adopted to a child. I think each parent should, at some time or another, definitely tell their child about
