WHAT ARE TEACHER’S BEST DEFENSIVE STRATEGIES?
Here are a few things you can do early in the year to keep the situation from reaching that parking lot moment. A little proaction can often be the best prevention when it comes to angry parents. [1.] Put money in the bank at the beginning of the year. Call every parent during the first week of school. My friend Beth Huppin says, “it’s hard to talk in the parking lot about someone who has taken the time to call and check in with you. The more difficult the parent, the more likely I am to call just to check in. It saves me a lot of grief in the long run. I then get a ‘reputation’ as a caring interested teacher and people are less likely to talk about me in the parking lot.” [2.] When you first get your new class list, check with last year’s teachers. Any red flags? You might want to call Marsha’s mother right away, welcome her to third grade. Invite her to play a meaningful role in your class—e.g. room parent. [3.] Remember that it’s never too late. It’s February. If you haven’t called
