What are Suggested Rape Prevention Strategies*?
One step to creating a safer environment is for both men and women to clearly and openly communicate about what they want and do not want sexually. Clear and open communication is crucial in any sexual situation. Examine your needs and desires before you get into a sexual situation. Clearly tell your partner what you want. If there are limits that you want to maintain, state what they are and stick to them. Clearly ask your partner what he/she wants. Listen to each other. Be aware of non-verbal cues, but do not rely on them. If you are not sure, ask. Challenge the myths and stereotypes. Challenge your friends who minimize rape or don’t understand it, who accept definitions of sex and gender roles that include forcing someone to have sex or getting them too drunk to say “No.” Talk with friends and give one another the opportunity to be assertive, respectful, honest and caring. Think about your sexual desires and limits and how you respond to social pressures. How do alcohol and/or drugs
